"Let's stay close," said mayor Keith Holliday to his fellow City Councilmembers as they positioned themselves for a roundtable discussion of the Truth and Reconciliation process this afternoon. He was referring to the seating arrangements in a crowded conference room at the Melvin building, but his words set the tone for a surprisingly positive session.
Eight of the nine councilmembers attended, with Florence Gatten out of town to address a family issue. City manager Mitch Johnson and attorney Linda Miles also sat at the big table, but (along with the audience) did not speak.
The big news is that there will be more discussions going forward. The Council will direct the city's Human Relations Commission to facilitate future activity around the TRC report.
Holliday said he had not made it through the whole volume, but urged everyone to read it, and said it deserved to be discussed in depth, even line by line. Referring to his earlier statements on the TRC, the mayor said, "I was wrong when I said I didn't believe this effort would open the door to healing."
Yvonne Johnson said, "There are enough apologies on every side to be made...reconciliation does work. Mediation and conflict resolution work." An apology, she said, does not have to be "an admission," but can be a way of saying "that you are sorry for the pain, you regret the loss."
The mayor recognized the TRC members who were present. He also said he thought there was too much emphasis on the police in the report, and repeated the old half-truth about outside groups coming to Greensboro.
Goldie Wells said this is an opportunity to promote the city, not to bring shame on it. She also said that reconciliation should start with the Council.
Johnson, who said she had read the report several times, said the respectful conversation among councilmembers, even when they disagreed, was a better advertisement for Greensboro than a tape of the county commissioners in action. She said Nelson Johnson bore some responsibility for the events of 1979, but should not be the scapegoat for them.
Tom Phillips, who told me afterwards that he attended the meeting as a "defensive position," supported Sandra Anderson's suggestion that the HRC be given specific goals rather than just being turned loose without a mandate. He said he had not read the full report, and originally urged the group not to spend time discussing it but to vote up or down on its specific recommendations.
Holliday promised to get some ideas together in the near future and bring them to the Council in preparation for discussions with the HRC.
Update: Jerry McClough live-blogged the meeting.
There is a truth in the work of the Commission that I believe could make a real impact on a much wider audience, if only more attention were paid to telling the story with a more empathetic and less pedantic touch. Here is a quick, yet bad example of what I mean:
Imagine you wake up one sunny November morning and cook breakfast for your young daughter. She's coloring at the kitchen table. You share a few stories and laughs. She gets up to help you with the dishes, and the sun comes through the kitchen window in front of you. As you hand her a plate to dry, there is a loud crackling sound. You look out the window and in front of you a chaotic scene of attack, retreat, gunfire, and death plays out in your neighborhood. You scream for your daughter to get down and take cover. Later, you comfort her but the color of the day, week, and who knows how much more has darkened. She's seen things you never wanted her to see. You feel a sense of failure and guilt over not being able to protect her. Something valuable was lost.
Fast forward to today and we know from the Commission's report that the GPD knew in advance of the very real risk of precisely these violent events in your neighborhood on that sunny November morning.
Put aside for a moment all of the labels: Communists, Nazis, Klan, and the rest -- a debt is owed and unpaid to that mother and child. Call it what you will -- apology, reconciliation ... I don't care. It's due.
It matters how you tell a story, and this one needs a rewrite.